If your relationship has started to feel more like roommates than soulmates, this is your reset button.
Learn how to stop fighting over the little stuff and start feeling emotionally safe with each other again — even if you’ve both been shutting down, checking out, or constantly clashing.
This mini course isn’t fluffy advice or couples therapy in disguise.
It’s three short, powerful lessons you can finish today and actually use tonight.
This course is for couples in committed relationships who:
This is your first step toward better communication without needing a big breakthrough.
1. Why You’re Arguing About Dishes (It’s Not About the Dishes)
You’re not actually mad about the laundry or the dishwasher.
You’re feeling like your needs aren’t being seen.
Outcome: Spot the real issue underneath the fight and stop repeating the same conflict loop.
2. One Yells, One Walks Away: What Now?
Understand your “pursuer–withdrawer” dynamic — and why both of you are protecting the relationship… just in completely opposite ways.
Outcome: Learn how to interrupt the blow-up/avoid cycle before it hijacks your night.
3. Safe Doesn’t Mean Silent
Silence isn’t peace. It’s just loneliness in disguise.
Outcome: Use one quick daily check-in ritual to rebuild emotional safety — no big talks required.
This is cheaper than takeout — and might save your relationship from becoming “just roommates.”
Includes exclusive access to our Couples Therapy Starter Guide PDF only for mini course buyers this month.

Hi, I’m Amanda Bacchus, a registered psychotherapist and couples therapist.
I’ve supported thousands of couples over the yearsand I created this course to give you the tools I wish every couple had before things hit a boiling point.
If you’re not ready for full therapy yet (or just want to feel like teammates again) this course is your on-ramp.
This isn’t therapy. It’s your next best thing.
Self-paced, non-judgmental, zero awkward sessions.
If you finish this course and don’t feel more clarity, insight, or relief, let us know. We’ll make it right.
Is this course therapy?
Nope! It’s educational, self-guided, and doesn’t replace personalized support. But it will give you tools many of my clients use in therapy for a fraction of the cost
Do we need to do this together?
It’s designed for couples, but even one partner can watch and benefit. (That said doing it together is a great date night!)
Is this just for married couples?
Not at all. If you’re living together or spending lots of time together, this is for you.
We’re already arguing. Will this help or make it worse?
This course helps de-escalate. It’s designed to help you understand each other and reduce conflict — not stir things up.
Can I watch it more than once?
Yes! You get lifetime access.
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